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Recruitment Is a Two-Way Street

Writer: Khanya Haya
Khanya Haya
Oct 15
4 min read

Updated: 7 days ago

Why Honesty Matters on Both Sides




Two people discuss something on a laptop. Text reads, "Gartner predicts over 40% of agentic AI projects will be abandoned by 2027."

We often talk about the importance of candidates being honest with recruiters. But how often do we stop to ask whether recruiters are offering that same honesty in return?


Recruitment relies on trust. Candidates trust recruiters to represent opportunities accurately, communicate updates and guide them through the process. Recruiters, in turn, rely on candidates to share relevant information that could affect their applications.


Yet, somewhere between the first conversation and the final decision, communication can become complicated. And when it does, both sides have a responsibility to get it right.





When the Recruitment Process Gets Complicated


One thing I've noticed since moving into recruitment is that some of the biggest surprises don't happen during an interview. They happen somewhere in the middle of the process.


A candidate might already be interviewing for another role within the same company. They might have applied directly or previously gone through a recruitment process with that organisation. Sometimes, this information only comes to light when things are already well underway.


From a recruiter's perspective, these situations can create genuine challenges. Multiple applications may lead to duplicated submissions, confusion about who is representing the candidate, or uncertainty about how to proceed with the client.


This is why transparency from candidates matters. Sharing relevant information early gives recruiters the opportunity to clarify the situation, understand the candidate's position and manage the process more effectively.


But it also raises an important question: if we expect candidates to communicate openly with us, are we creating an environment where they feel comfortable doing so?





What Does Honesty Look Like From a Recruiter?


Recruiters don't always have control over every part of the hiring process. Clients change their requirements, hiring decisions get delayed, positions are put on hold and feedback doesn't always arrive when expected.


These things happen. The problem isn't necessarily that the process changes. It's how we communicate when it does. If feedback is taking longer than anticipated, candidates should receive an update where possible. If a position is put on hold, they deserve to know. If the client's requirements change significantly, that conversation should happen before everyone continues working towards an opportunity that may no longer be the right fit.


Equally important is being realistic about what we can promise. A recruiter can explain the next steps, share the information available and advocate for a candidate. However, we cannot guarantee that a client will make an offer, provide feedback by a particular deadline or ultimately choose a specific person. There is a difference between keeping someone informed and promising an outcome we cannot control.


Being honest about that difference doesn't make us less effective recruiters. It helps candidates make informed decisions about their time, expectations and other opportunities.





Creating Space for Honest Conversations


Trust isn't built by expecting people to be transparent. It's built by making transparency feel safe and worthwhile.


Imagine a candidate telling their recruiter that they're already interviewing for another position at the same company. That information could complicate the process, but it could also help everyone involved avoid unnecessary duplication and agree on the best way forward. The same principle applies when a candidate has concerns about the role, is considering another offer or needs clarity about the timeline.


These conversations are much easier when candidates know they can raise an issue without automatically being judged or penalised for doing so.


The responsibility works both ways. Recruiters should be able to have honest conversations with candidates about their suitability, salary expectations, availability and any concerns that could affect the placement.


That doesn't mean either side needs to disclose every conversation, application or opportunity. It means being open about the information that is relevant to the process and could influence the decisions being made.





Small Communication Changes Can Make a Big Difference


Better recruitment experiences don't always require complicated systems or lengthy conversations. Sometimes, a few simple habits can make a meaningful difference.


  • Communicate when something changes. If a timeline shifts or a role is put on hold, provide an update rather than leaving candidates wondering what happened.


  • Be clear about expectations. Explain the recruitment process, what happens next and what is still uncertain. Avoid presenting assumptions as confirmed decisions.


  • Encourage candidates to share relevant information. Ask whether they have applied to the company before or are already engaged in another process. Explain why this information matters rather than making it feel like an interrogation.


  • Be honest when you don't have an answer. It's perfectly reasonable to say that you're waiting for feedback or need to confirm something with the client. An honest update is better than an unsupported promise.


  • Ask questions before making assumptions. When something unexpected comes to light, take the time to understand the circumstances and agree on the next steps.


None of these actions guarantees a perfect recruitment process. But they help reduce misunderstandings and create a more respectful experience for everyone involved.





Trust Makes Recruitment Work Better


At the end of the day, recruitment is about bringing the right people and opportunities together. Candidates want to find roles that suit their skills and goals, while employers want to find people who can make a meaningful contribution to their teams.


Recruiters sit in the middle of that relationship, helping both sides navigate the process. That position comes with a responsibility to communicate honestly, manage expectations and recognise that there is a person behind every application.


We should absolutely encourage candidates to be transparent with us. But we should also be willing to hold ourselves to the same standard. If something could affect the process, communicate it. If you're unsure, ask. If something changes, say so.


Honesty shouldn't be an expectation we place on candidates alone. It should be part of the relationship we build with them. Because when both sides feel informed, respected and able to have open conversations, recruitment has a much better chance of working for everyone.





Looking for a Recruiter Who Values Transparency? NNW Can Help.


We believe successful recruitment starts with honest conversations, clear communication and a genuine understanding of what both clients and candidates need.


Whether you're looking for your next tech opportunity or searching for the right talent to grow your team, we're here to make the recruitment process simpler, more transparent and more human.

 




 
 
 

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